June 2024 – Donna Destri

She’s Simply Irresistible: Donna Destri

Interview By: Ginger Coyote

I know that when Robert Palmer was belting out Simply Irresistible on stage  he was  envisioning  Donna Destri.    She has Beauty, Talent with a  wicked sense of humor. I hope you enjoy the interview.

Punk Globe: Congratulations Donna on getting your six-song EP  recorded. Have you pressed them? Are you waiting for that?

Donna: Thanks Gingersnap. I’m anxious to get it out there. I wrote most of the songs way back in the day but they sound fresh and new if I say so myself. I’ve collaborated on two of the tracks with Freddie Katz, one of which is my favorite. It’s called Fantasy and it’s a tribute to Anne Rice whose vampire novels occupied much of my life in the 80’s. She was a fantastic author. Her prose is heartbreakingly gorgeous, in my humble opinion.  I do believe that in 100 years, Anne Rice will be thought of in much the same way as George Eliot or Mary Shelley are thought of today. I think Fantasy will probably be the single. Freddie Katz, who also produced the project, has given the songs to his music business attorney to submit to labels. We’ll see how it goes on that score, though frankly, I’m not optimistic and I’m also rather hesitant about the music business as it is these days. My understanding is that “ the suits”  are reluctant to sign anyone of a “certain age” and understandably so. If we don’t get a bite going that route, I am not opposed to putting it on major platforms myself.  I know people that have had number-one selling records in Europe and the States that are doing just that. I’m told people are hiring publicists for exorbitant amounts of money and all these publicists are doing is putting the projects on platforms that get “bots” to translate as hits/listens. That’s money out the window, in my opinion, when you can reach out to radio stations on your own. When I was with Mainman, Tony Defries had me call college radio stations to get airplay for my Rebel Rebel remake. I was wondering why I even had a manager , never mind one with such clout. It was a do it yourself thang even way back when…

Punk Globe: Where did you record and who did you have playing with you? 

Donna: We recorded at Katz’s studio, Sierra Sound and also at Steve Addabbo’s studio, Shelter Island Studio. Steve co-produced one of the tracks called Heaven Knows. We have the great Stephen Holley playing drums and Danny Ray doing some sax bits. 

Punk Globe: I heard the track you posted on Facebook. I believe it was dedicated to The Everly Brothers.  I enjoyed that a lot. What is the story behind the song?

Donna: That song, Tomorrow Comes Too Soon is not so much a dedication to the Everly Brothers but the double vocal harmony is heavily influenced by Phil and Don.

 Also, I loved Craig Leon’s production of Blondie’s Out in the Streets which I also did some background vocals on. He reinvented that excellent Shangri La’s track and Debbie did a double lead vocal on it. I guess I kind of tried to give my track that same vocal flavor…The music is a nod to Rockpile and Dave Edmunds whose songs I always liked. I think that Freddie got the guitar parts on it,  just spot on and in the right feel—retro without sounding hackneyed. The song has an interesting story. It’s mainly about some younger kids in my neighborhood who used to see me getting dressed up to go out to see the New York Dolls when I was just a teenager myself. They would always ask a million questions about New York City nightlife, David Johansen, and Johnny Thunders. I was thinking of them one day and pondering what advice about growing up I might give them…mind you I wrote the tune in the 80s when I didn’t really feel grown up myself!

Punk Globe: Did you write all the music or are you doing covers?

Donna:  I wrote four of the songs myself and collaborated with Freddie on Two: Fantasy and Hideaway. There’s a cover of Blind Faith’s, Can’t Find My Way Home. 

Punk Globe: I know you are a fan of Cilla Black, Flo from Progressive aka Stephanie Courtney, and Dusty Springfield. Did they inspire you for this recording?

Donna:  I love the early Cilla recordings. I love any of the Swinging London sounds. I think we need another British Invasion, don’t you Gingersnap? Flo is always an inspiration—even though Progressive and other insurance rates have skyrocketed these days! Jeez, Louise! You’ve got to be wealthy to insure your car and home. It’s nuts. Anyway, I digress.  I could listen to Dusty all day every day. For me, her voice is a religious experience. She was my ultimate hair brush in the mirror- go- to as a kid. Me and Aunty Jayne have Dusty love in common.

Punk Globe: Is your brother Jimmy playing on the release?

Donna: No, Jimmy has always been reluctant to get involved in my music. He didn’t want people to accuse him of nepotism, I think. Still, I would not be opposed to doing something with him. He actually wrote the lyrics and middle eight to one of my songs The Man without a Name. He knows the value of a bridge in music. He is such a great songwriter, but on that score, our writing styles are very different. 

Punk Globe: Any surprise appearances from a well-known piano Player( Beep Beep)

Donna: I will give her a call if and when I decide I need a boost. Maybe we can do a cover of Crocodile Rock. However, I’d be really jealous if someone was looking at her and not me…Beep Beep. 

Punk Globe Any plans to collaborate with your childhood friend Paul Zone again? Paul has given you some very wise advice. I would take it

Donna: Paul always has my best interests at heart. As you know I love him dearly. I consider Paul my brother from another mother—even though he insists on posting the most awful childhood pic of me every year on my birthday! LOL!  If it weren’t for Paul and his brothers Miki and Mandy, I might still be stuck in Brooklyn and married to a guy who would keep me a barefoot HausFrau for the rest of my days. 

Paul introduced me to Glam, to the New York Dolls, to Punk, to New Wave…he introduced Jimmy to Debbie and Chris and the rest was history. Paul was the social butterfly that everyone adored back in the day. His book Playground: Growing up in the New York Underground, chronicles all of this with excellent photos and text. The  Sonny and Cher thing with Paul was truly a labor of love and I am pleased with how it came out. Incidentally, the producer of one of the tracks, Richard Citroen, also produced the track that I wrote with my brother. I love how it came out and I’ll be sharing that on all major platforms soon.  Paul’s brother Miki was the most prolific songwriter on the scene back in the day. One of his songs, Man in the Moon, is an excellent pop ditty with a reggae flavor. I’d love to record it with Paul. I did a demo of it with Paul’s brother Mandy and we combined it with one of my songs, a tribute to Miki entitled The Fairy Tale Boy and The Man in the Moon. I wrote it after Miki died and I was gutted. 

The two songs meshed together perfectly. Sadly, I can’t find the demo tape, but I’d love to do the song(s) again at some point with Paul.

The Fairy Tale Boy and the Man in the Moon

Fairy tale boy

Dancing with the man in the moon

Sprinkled magic everywhere but you left us much too soon

Fairy tale boy, fell through the looking glass

And beauty captured innocence somewhere in Wonderland

Children dream on Christmas Eve and we wonder why you left us

We hope that someday we will meet again

And Fairy Tale boy

We’re not so far behind

Trying to fly above the stars if only in our minds

Were you only in my mind?

I believe that anyone who has ever lost a loved one can relate…

Punk Globe: The lovely Ms. Constance  Cooper was in the Big Apple. Did you get to see her?

Donna: I didn’t this time, no. I invited them to my house for dinner, but Connie’s traveling companion, Brent,  is allergic to the suburbs. I talk to Connie pretty regularly these days. Here’s some dish: We love to talk about what we are watching on TV and give each other recommendations. I’m currently watching Sugar, which stars Colin Farrell on Apple TV, and Connie told me a story that I had no idea about. It seems that when Connie was working at Chateau Marmont, she became friends with Colin as their families are from the same small town in Ireland. They began to hang out and after a night of partying, Connie fell asleep in Colin’s room. It was totally innocent but somehow the press got wind of the friendship and blew it out of proportion. Connie sent me the papers which said things like: “Colin’s new lady friend is a man!” Hilarious. 

Punk Globe: You have a long history with my beloved Jayne County and Cherry Vanilla tell us all about that.

Donna: I’ve been friends with Jayne since she was Wayne and I was a teenager. Thanks again to Paul Zone. I even auditioned for Jayne at one point. She wanted a piano player to play bluesy piano, sort of in the Honky Tonk blues tradition. At that juncture, I couldn’t play like that, but we stayed fast friends. We were also connected through Tony Ingrassia, who was sort of a mentor to me and I was thrilled to learn that I’d be going to Berlin, along with Jayne and Joy Ryder to be in Tony’s play Sheila. We had so much fun in Berlin, Jayne, Joy, Romy Haag and me. Later, during the play’s run, when Romy had another commitment, Cherry was flown in to learn Romy’s part and she learned all the lines overnight! I was so inspired by her dedication. Cherry and I have been friends since Berlin. When I was going through a particularly difficult time in my love life, Cherry and her boyfriend at the time, Louie Lepore, really helped me out. I’ve always thought of Cherry and Jayne as family. FYI,  it was ME who  first started calling Jayne “Aunty,” ME! ME! ME!
After Berlin, Cherry and doing a lot of gigs at the Ritz and Limelight.  She conceived these shows, called Girl’s Night Out. We had Gabriel Rotello’s fabulous backup band, The Realtones and a bevy of beautiful New York singers come and do numbers. The shows were really well received. Cherry has always been so creative and excellent at directing these things. We had so much fun doing these shows. Gabriel continued the tradition and called it Downtown Divas and Dukes. 

Jayne and me at her art show right before the Pandemic

Punk Globe: Your Facebook page is so inspiring to wake up to, with photos of flowers and homes you will be buying when you win the lottery.  What inspires you every morning? Was it the wild night at The Blacklight that you had the night before?

Donna: Someone once said my Facebook page looked like it was designed by Hallmark. Ha! Nonetheless, I try to keep the vibe positive, always. 

There is so much negative crap on social media and now with people dropping like flies, sometimes Facebook looks like the obituary page. The news is depressing enough. I want to look at beautiful things on social media. 

Punk Globe: Please let us know about any launch/record release parties that you have planned for Donna D.

Donna: Absolutely, I will! I think that we should have it at the Blacklight, of course. 

Punk Globe: Please try to get out to California.  Cherry and I are always asking when is Donna coming out west.

Donna: I’m really overdue for a visit, I know. These days, however, with all the nonsense going on with Boeing and plane parts dropping from the sky, I’m a little nervous about flying. Cherry thinks that I should drive cross country—something I would never consider doing by myself. Still, I really should bite the bullet and buy a ticket. I’m going to retire from my teaching job in September. I will seriously consider a trip then.

Punk Globe: Any Internet addresses you would like to share with the readers?

Donna: I’m having a friend design a website as we speak. I’ll keep you posted on that for sure!

Punk Globe: Describe yourself in three words.

Donna: Creative, Compassionate, Curious (Positive “C” words methinks)

Punk Globe: Any last words Ms. Donna for Punk Globe readers?

Donna: Remember to always celebrate your imagination. The Universe will not reward you if you do not. Love Ya Gingersnap <3 and thanks Punk Globe for your continued support!